by Cate Montana | Nov 5, 2019 | the E-Blog
Are they possible? Are they desirable? Better yet … what the hell are they? What does an “impersonal relationship” entail? I ask myself these questions because at this point in my life I find that, after many years of happy singledom, I have the desire to experience...
by Cate Montana | Oct 13, 2019 | the E-Blog
The moment is perfect. You are safe and secure, surrounded by the comfort and beauty you have created. All is well … all is MORE than well. You are satisfied—deeply fulfilled in the moment—the time and place and situation you find yourself in … and all of it has come...
by Cate Montana | Oct 10, 2019 | the E-Blog
Seriously, I’m asking myself this. And the answer kind of horrifies me: Drama. Tension. Conflict. Suffering. Struggle. Difficulty. Overcoming the odds. This is the stuff of epic poems. There’s a reason fairy tales don’t go beyond “And they lived happily ever after.”...
by Cate Montana | Sep 20, 2019 | the E-Blog
A couple months ago a dear friend asked me what I thought the deepest desire of men and the deepest desire of women are. And, with a lack of hesitation that actually kind of surprised me, I blurted out, “Men most desire freedom and women most desire connection.” He...
by Cate Montana | Aug 26, 2019 | the E-Blog
I read a fellow author’s blog this morning about a tough conversation he and his wife had with a fellow human traveler through this worldly realm, a man who had apparently fallen in a wagon rut emotionally and psychologically, puzzling over whether his life held...
